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Help In Daily Living
Think and Speak Well of Others
Cultivate the habit of speaking well of others. Dwell upon the
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good qualities of those with whom you associate, and see as little as
possible of their errors and failings. When tempted to complain of
what someone has said or done, praise something in that person’s life
or character. Cultivate thankfulness. Praise God for His wonderful love
in giving Christ to die for us. It never pays to think of our grievances.
God calls upon us to think of His mercy and His matchless love, that
we may be inspired with praise.
Earnest workers have no time for dwelling upon the faults of others.
We cannot afford to live on the husks of others’ faults or failings.
Evilspeaking is a twofold curse, falling more heavily upon the speaker
than upon the hearer. He who scatters the seeds of dissension and strife
reaps in his own soul the deadly fruits. The very act of looking for evil
in others develops evil in those who look. By dwelling upon the faults
of others, we are changed into the same image. But by beholding Jesus,
talking of His love and perfection of character, we become changed
into His image. By contemplating the lofty ideal He has placed before
us, we shall be uplifted into a pure and holy atmosphere, even the
presence of God. When we abide here, there goes forth from us a light
that irradiates all who are connected with us.
Instead of criticizing and condemning others, say, “I must work
out my own salvation. If I co-operate with Him who desires to save my
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soul, I must watch myself diligently. I must put away every evil from
my life. I must overcome every fault. I must become a new creature in
Christ. Then, instead of weakening those who are striving against evil,
I can strengthen them by encouraging words.” We are too indifferent
in regard to one another. Too often we forget that our fellow laborers
are in need of strength and cheer. Take care to assure them of your
interest and sympathy. Help them by your prayers, and let them know
that you do it.
Patience With the Erring
Not all who profess to be workers for Christ are true disciples.
Among those who bear His name, and who are even numbered with
His workers, are some who do not represent Him in character. They