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careless words, may be wrought evil that a whole lifetime’s repentance
cannot undo. Oh, the hearts that are broken, the friends estranged,
the lives wrecked, by the harsh, hasty words of those who might have
brought help and healing!
Overwork sometimes causes a loss of self-control. But the Lord
never compels hurried, complicated movements. Many gather to them-
selves burdens that the merciful Heavenly Father did not place on
them. Duties He never designed them to perform chase one another
wildly. God desires us to realize that we do not glorify His name
when we take so many burdens that we are overtaxed, and, becoming
heart-weary and brain-weary, chafe and fret and scold. We are to bear
only the responsibilities that the Lord gives us, trusting in Him, and
thus keeping our hearts pure and sweet and sympathetic.
Ruling the Spirit
There is a wonderful power in silence. When impatient words are
spoken to you, do not retaliate. Words spoken in reply to one who is
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angry usually act as a whip, lashing the temper into greater fury. But
anger met by silence quickly dies away. Let the Christian bridle his
tongue, firmly resolving not to speak harsh, impatient words. With the
tongue bridled, he may be victorious in every trial of patience through
which he is called to pass.
In his own strength man cannot rule his spirit. But through Christ
he may gain self-control. In His strength he may bring his thoughts
and words into subjection to the will of God. The religion of Christ
brings the emotions under the control of reason and disciplines the
tongue. Under its influence the hasty temper is subdued, and the heart
is filled with patience and gentleness.
Hold firmly to the One who has all power in heaven and in earth.
Though you so often fail to reveal patience and calmness, do not give
up the struggle. Resolve again, this time more firmly, to be patient
under every provocation. And never take your eyes off your divine
Example.—
The Review and Herald, October 31, 1907
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