Chapter 108—Faithfulness in Home Duties
The highest duty that devolves upon youth is in their own homes,
blessing father and mother, brothers and sisters, by affection and true
interest. Here they can show self-denial and self-forgetfulness in caring
and doing for others. Never will woman be degraded by this work. It
is the most sacred, elevated office that she can fill. What an influence
a sister may have over brothers! If she is right, she may determine
the character of her brothers. Her prayers, her gentleness, and her
affection may do much in a household.
My sister, these noble qualities can never be communicated to
other minds unless they first exist in your own. That contentment of
mind, that affection, gentleness, and sunniness of temper which will
reach every heart, will reflect upon you what your heart gives forth to
others. If Christ does not reign in the heart, there will be discontent
and moral deformity. Selfishness will require of others that which we
are unwilling to give them....
It is not a great work and great battles alone which try the soul
and demand courage. Everyday life brings its perplexities, trials, and
discouragements. It is the humble work which frequently draws upon
the patience and the fortitude. Self-reliance and resolution will be
necessary to meet and conquer all difficulties. Secure the Lord to
stand with you, in every place to be your consolation and comfort.—
Testimonies for the Church 3:80, 81
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