Chapter 28—Self-respect
Developing Self-respect—If we wish to do good to souls, our
success with these souls will be in proportion to their belief in our
belief in, and appreciation of, them. Respect shown to the struggling
human soul is the sure means through Christ Jesus of the restoration
of the self-respect the man has lost. Our advancing ideas of what he
may become are a help we cannot ourselves fully appreciate.—
Letter
50, 1893
. (
Fundamentals of Christian Education, 280
.)
Respect for the Dignity of Man as Man—Wherever principle is
not compromised, consideration of others will lead to compliance with
accepted customs; but true courtesy requires no sacrifice of principle
to conventionality. It ignores caste. It teaches self-respect, respect for
the dignity of man as man, a regard for every member of the great
human brotherhood.—
Education, 240
(1903).
Maintain Self-respect—Some with whom you are brought in
contact may be rough and uncourteous, but do not, because of this,
be less courteous yourself. He who wishes to preserve his own self-
respect must be careful not to wound needlessly the self-respect of
others. This rule should be sacredly observed toward the dullest,
the most blundering. What God intends to do with these apparently
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unpromising ones, you do not know. He has in the past accepted
persons no more promising or attractive to do a great work for Him.
His Spirit, moving upon the heart, has roused every faculty to vigorous
action. The Lord saw in these rough, unhewn stones precious material,
which would stand the test of storm and heat and pressure. God does
not see as man sees. He does not judge from appearances, but searches
the heart and judges righteously.—
Gospel Workers, 122, 123
(1915).
Conscientiousness Engenders Self-respect—Men of principle
need not the restriction of locks and keys; they do not need to be
watched and guarded. They will deal truly and honorably at all times—
alone, with no eye upon them, as well as in public. They will not bring
a stain upon their souls for any amount of gain or selfish advantage.
They scorn a mean act. Although no one else might know it, they
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