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        influence. Eternal considerations should come first with you. Nothing
      
      
        can have a more subtle and positively dangerous influence upon the
      
      
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        mind, and serve more effectually to banish serious impressions and
      
      
        the convictions of the Spirit of God, than to associate with those who
      
      
        are vain and careless, and whose conversation is upon the world and
      
      
        vanity. The more engaging these persons may be in other respects, the
      
      
        more dangerous is their influence as companions, because they throw
      
      
        around an irreligious life so many pleasing attractions.
      
      
        God has claims upon all three of you which you cannot lightly
      
      
        throw aside. Jesus has bought you with the price of His own blood.
      
      
        “Ye are not your own, for ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify
      
      
        God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.” Have you no
      
      
        sacrifice to make for God? Great responsibilities stand before you
      
      
        each in everyday life. Your record is daily passing up to God. Great
      
      
        dangers lie hidden in your pathway. If I could, I would take you in
      
      
        my arms and bear you safely over them; but this I am not permitted
      
      
        to do. You are in the most critical period of your life history. If you
      
      
        arouse the energies of the soul and direct them to securing things of
      
      
        eternal interest, and if you make everything subordinate to this, you
      
      
        will make a success of perfecting Christian character. You may all
      
      
        engage in the spiritual warfare against besetting sins, and you may,
      
      
        through Christ, come off victors. But it will be no child’s play. It will
      
      
        be a stern warfare, involving self-denial and cross bearing. The danger
      
      
        is that you will not fully realize your backslidings and your perilous
      
      
        condition. Unless you view life as it is, cast aside the brilliant fancies
      
      
        of imagination, and come down to the sober lessons of experience,
      
      
        you will awake when it is too late. You will then realize the terrible
      
      
        mistake you have made.
      
      
        Your education has not been of that kind to form solid, substantial
      
      
        characters, therefore you have to obtain now the education which you
      
      
        should have had years ago. Your mother was too fond of you. A
      
      
        mother cannot love her children too well, but she may love unwisely
      
      
        and allow her affection to blind her to their best interests. You have
      
      
        had an indulgent, tender mother. She has shielded her children too
      
      
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        much. Her life has been nearly crushed out by the burdens which her
      
      
        children should have taken, and which they could have borne better
      
      
        than she.