Patience and Sympathy
      
      
        There will ever be things arising to annoy, perplex, and try the
      
      
        patience of physicians and helpers. They must be prepared for this
      
      
        and not become excited or unbalanced. They must be calm and kind,
      
      
        whatever may occur.... They should ever consider that they are dealing
      
      
        with men and women of diseased minds, who frequently view things
      
      
        in a perverted light and yet are confident that they understand matters
      
      
        perfectly.
      
      
        Physicians should understand that a soft answer turneth away wrath.
      
      
        Policy must be used in an institution where the sick are treated, in
      
      
        order to successfully control diseased minds and benefit the sick. If
      
      
        physicians can remain calm amid a tempest of inconsiderate, passion-
      
      
        ate words, if they can rule their own spirits when provoked and abused,
      
      
        they are indeed conquerors. “He that ruleth his spirit” is better “than
      
      
        he that taketh a city.”
      
      
         Proverbs 16:32
      
      
        . To subdue self and bring the
      
      
        passions under the control of the will is the greatest conquest that
      
      
        men and women can achieve.—
      
      
        Testimonies for the Church 3:182,
      
      
        183
      
      
        (1872).
      
      
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