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will judge them in the great day of final reckoning. And with some
souls the manner of the one delivering the message will determine
its reception or rejection. Then let the word be so spoken that it will
appeal to the understanding and impress the heart. Slowly, distinctly,
and solemnly should it be spoken, yet with all the earnestness which
its importance demands.
The right culture and use of the power of speech has to do with
every line of Christian work; it enters into the home life, and into all
our intercourse with one another. We should accustom ourselves to
speak in pleasant tones, to use pure and correct language, and words
that are kind and courteous. Sweet, kind words are as dew and gentle
showers to the soul. The Scripture says of Christ that grace was poured
into His lips that He might “know how to speak a word in season to
him that is weary.”
Psalm 45:2
;
Isaiah 50:4
. And the Lord bids us,
“Let your speech be alway with grace” (
Colossians 4:6
) “that it may
minister grace unto the hearers” (
Ephesians 4:29
).
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In seeking to correct or reform others we should be careful of our
words. They will be a savor of life unto life or of death unto death. In
giving reproof or counsel, many indulge in sharp, severe speech, words
not adapted to heal the wounded soul. By these ill-advised expressions
the spirit is chafed, and often the erring ones are stirred to rebellion.
All who would advocate the principles of truth need to receive the
heavenly oil of love. Under all circumstances reproof should be spoken
in love. Then our words will reform but not exasperate. Christ by His
Holy Spirit will supply the force and the power. This is His work.
Not one word is to be spoken unadvisedly. No evil speaking, no
frivolous talk, no fretful repining or impure suggestion, will escape
the lips of him who is following Christ. The apostle Paul, writing
by the Holy Spirit, says, “Let no corrupt communication proceed out
of your mouth.”
Ephesians 4:29
. A corrupt communication does not
mean only words that are vile. It means any expression contrary to
holy principles and pure and undefiled religion. It includes impure
hints and covert insinuations of evil. Unless instantly resisted, these
lead to great sin.
Upon every family, upon every individual Christian, is laid the
duty of barring the way against corrupt speech. When in the company
of those who indulge in foolish talk, it is our duty to change the subject
of conversation if possible. By the help of the grace of God we should