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              and then shall the righteous shine forth as the sun in the kingdom of
            
            
              their Father....
            
            
              I do not recommend pleasure parties where young people assem-
            
            
              ble together for mere amusement, to engage in cheap, nonsensical
            
            
              talk, and where loud, boisterous laughter is to be heard. I do not
            
            
              recommend the kind of gathering where there is a letting down of
            
            
              dignity and the scene is one of weakness and folly.
            
            
              Many times young men for whom heavenly intelligences have
            
            
              been waiting in order to number them as missionaries for God are
            
            
              drawn into the gatherings for amusement, and are carried away
            
            
              with Satan’s fascinations. Instead of being afraid to continue their
            
            
              association with girls whose depth of mind is easily measured, whose
            
            
              character is of a cheap order, they become enamored of them and
            
            
              enter into an engagement. Satan knows that if these young men enter
            
            
              into an engagement with cheap-minded, pleasure-loving, worldly-
            
            
              minded, irreligious young women, they will bind themselves to
            
            
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              stumbling blocks. Their usefulness will be largely crippled, if not
            
            
              utterly destroyed. Even if the young men themselves succeed in
            
            
              making an unreserved surrender to God, yet they will find that they
            
            
              are greatly crippled by being bound to an untrained, undisciplined,
            
            
              un-Christlike wife who is dead to God, dead to piety, and dead to
            
            
              true holiness. Their lives will prove unsatisfying and unhappy.
            
            
              Gatherings for amusement confuse faith and make the motive
            
            
              mixed and uncertain. The Lord accepts no divided heart. He wants
            
            
              the whole man. He made all there is of man. He offered a complete
            
            
              sacrifice to redeem the body and soul of man. That which He requires
            
            
              of those whom He has created and redeemed is summed up in these
            
            
              words: “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with
            
            
              all thy soul, and with all thy mind.... Thou shalt love thy neighbor
            
            
              as thyself.”
            
            
              Matthew 22:37-39
            
            
              . God will accept nothing less than
            
            
              this.—
            
            
              Special Testimonies On Education, 80-83
            
            
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              “Let him that thinketh he standeth take heed lest he fall.”
            
            
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              Corinthians 10:12
            
            
              . There can be no presumption more fatal than that
            
            
              which leads men to venture upon a course of self-pleasing. In view
            
            
              of this solemn warning from God, should not fathers and mothers