The Graces of Culture and Kindness
Our Great Example—Christ carried out in His life His own di-
vine teachings. His zeal never led Him to become passionate. He
manifested consistency without obstinacy, benevolence without weak-
ness, tenderness and sympathy without sentimentalism. He was highly
social; yet He possessed a reserved dignity that did not encourage
undue familiarity. His temperance never led to bigotry or austerity.
He was not conformed to this world; yet He was not indifferent to
the wants of the least among men. He was awake to the needs of
all.—
Manuscript 132, 1902
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The Perfect Pattern—From earliest years to manhood, Christ
lived a life that was a perfect pattern of humility and industry and
obedience. He was always thoughtful and considerate of others, always
self-denying. He came bearing the signature of heaven, not to be
ministered unto, but to minister....
The unselfish life of Christ is an example to all. His character
is a pattern of the characters we may form if we follow on in His
footsteps.—
Manuscript 108, 1903
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Dignity, Courtesy, Refinement—Be sure to maintain the dignity
of the work by a well-ordered life and godly conversation. Never
be afraid of raising the standard too high. The families who engage
in the missionary work should come close to hearts. The spirit of
Jesus should pervade the soul of the worker; it is the pleasant, sym-
pathetic words, the manifestation of disinterested love for their souls,
that will break down the barriers of pride and selfishness, and show
to unbelievers that we have the love of Christ; and then the truth
will find its way to the heart. This is our work, and the fulfilling of
God’s plan. All coarseness and roughness must be put away from us.
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Courtesy, refinement, Christian politeness, must be cherished. Guard
against being abrupt and blunt. Do not regard such peculiarities as
virtues; for God does not so regard them. Endeavor not to offend any
unnecessarily.—
The Review and Herald, November 25, 1890
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