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         Fundamentals of Christian Education
      
      
        that patient instruction which they must have to give right direction to
      
      
        their developing minds.
      
      
        This lifetime is too short to be squandered in vain and trifling
      
      
        diversion, in unprofitable visiting, in needless dressing for display,
      
      
        or in exciting amusements. We cannot afford to squander the time
      
      
        given us of God in which to bless others, and in which to lay up for
      
      
        ourselves a treasure in heaven. We have none too much time for the
      
      
        discharge of necessary duties. We should give time to the culture of
      
      
        our own hearts and minds, in order that we may be qualified for our
      
      
        life work. By neglecting these essential duties, and conforming to the
      
      
        habits and customs of fashionable, worldly society, we do ourselves
      
      
        and our children a great wrong.
      
      
        Mothers who have youthful minds to train, and the characters of
      
      
        children to form, should not seek the excitement of the world in order
      
      
        to be cheerful and happy. They have an important life work, and they
      
      
        and theirs cannot afford to spend time in an unprofitable manner. Time
      
      
        is one of the important talents which God has intrusted to us, and for
      
      
        which He will call us to account. A waste of time is a waste of intellect.
      
      
        The powers of the mind are susceptible of high cultivation. It is the duty
      
      
        of mothers to cultivate their minds, and keep their hearts pure. They
      
      
        should improve every means within their reach for their intellectual and
      
      
        moral improvement, that they may be qualified to improve the minds of
      
      
        their children. Those who indulge their disposition to be in company,
      
      
        will soon feel restless unless visiting or entertaining visitors. Such
      
      
        have not the power of adaptation to circumstances. The necessary,
      
      
        sacred home duties seem commonplace and uninteresting to them.
      
      
        They have no love for self-examination or self-discipline. The mind
      
      
        hungers for the varying, exciting scenes of worldly life; children are
      
      
        neglected for the indulgence of inclination; and the recording angel
      
      
        writes, “Unprofitable servants.” God designs that our minds should not
      
      
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        be purposeless, but should accomplish good in this life.
      
      
        If parents would feel that it is a solemn duty enjoined upon them
      
      
        of God to educate their children for usefulness in this life; if they
      
      
        would adorn the inner temple of the souls of their sons and daughters
      
      
        for the immortal life, we should see a great change in society for
      
      
        the better. There would not then be manifest so great indifference to
      
      
        practical godliness, and it would not be so difficult to arouse the moral
      
      
        sensibilities of children to understand the claims that God has upon