Silken Cords of Affection, September 18
            
            
              And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one
            
            
              another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.
            
            
              Ephesians 4:32
            
            
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              The principle inculcated by the injunction, “Be kindly affectioned
            
            
              one to another” (
            
            
              Romans 12:10
            
            
              ), lies at the very foundation of domestic
            
            
              happiness.
            
            
              Unkindness, complaining, and anger shut Jesus from the dwelling. I
            
            
              saw that angels of God will flee from a house where there are unpleasant
            
            
              words, fretfulness, and strife.
            
            
              Gentle manners, cheerful conversation, and loving acts will bind the
            
            
              hearts of children to their parents by the silken cords of affection and
            
            
              will do more to make home attractive than the rarest ornaments that can
            
            
              be bought for gold.
            
            
              Tender affection should ever be cherished between husband and wife,
            
            
              parents and children, brothers and sisters. Every hasty word should be
            
            
              checked, and there should not be even the appearance of the lack of love
            
            
              one for another.... Children are to respect and reverence their parents,
            
            
              and parents are to manifest patience, kindness, and affection for their
            
            
              children. Each one should seek in every possible way to please and
            
            
              make happy the members of the family circle.
            
            
              Acts of kindness.... will bind hearts together, and will draw them
            
            
              closer to the heart of Him from whom every generous impulse springs.
            
            
              The little attentions, the small acts of love and self-sacrifice, that flow out
            
            
              from the life as quietly as the fragrance from a flower—these constitute
            
            
              no small share of the blessings and happiness of life.
            
            
              Oh, what rays of softness and beauty shone forth in the daily life of
            
            
              our Saviour! What sweetness flowed from His very presence! The same
            
            
              spirit will be revealed in His children. Those with whom Christ dwells
            
            
              will be surrounded with a divine atmosphere. Their white robes of purity
            
            
              will be fragrant with perfume from the garden of the Lord. Their faces
            
            
              will reflect light from His, brightening the path for stumbling and weary
            
            
              feet.
            
            
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