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is with Me: the Father hath not left Me alone; for I do always those
things that please Him.” [
John 8:28, 29
.]
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Cultivate the habit of speaking well of others. Dwell upon the good
qualities of those with whom you associate, and see as little as possible
of their errors and failings. When tempted to complain of what some
one has said or done, praise something in that person’s life or character.
Cultivate thankfulness. Praise God for His wonderful love in giving
Christ to die for us. It never pays to think of our grievances. God calls
upon us to think of His mercy and His matchless love, that we may be
inspired with praise.
Earnest workers have no time for dwelling upon the faults of others.
We cannot afford to live on the husks of others’ faults or failings. Evil-
speaking is a twofold curse, falling more heavily upon the speaker than
upon the hearer. He who scatters the seeds of dissension and strife,
reaps in his own soul the deadly fruits. The very act of looking for evil
in others develops evil in those who look. By dwelling upon the faults
of others, we are changed into the same image. But by beholding Jesus,
talking of His love and perfection of character, we become changed
into His image. By contemplating the lofty ideal He has placed before
us, we shall be uplifted into a pure and holy atmosphere, even the
presence of God. When we abide here, there goes forth from us a light
that irradiates all who are connected with us.
Instead of criticizing and condemning others, say, “I must work
out my own salvation. If I co-operate with Him who desires to save my
soul, I must watch myself diligently. I must put away every evil from
my life. I must overcome every fault. I must become a new creature in
Christ. Then, instead of weakening those who are striving against evil,
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I can strengthen them by encouraging words.”
We are too indifferent in regard to one another. Too often we forget
that our fellow-laborers are in need of strength and cheer. Take care to
assure them of your interest and sympathy. Help them by your prayers,
and let them know that you do it.—
The Ministry of Healing, 483-493
.
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All who profess to be children of God should bear in mind that
as missionaries they will be brought into contact with all classes of
minds. There are the refined and the coarse, the humble and the proud,