Chapter 137—Christian Sociability and Courtesy
Christian sociability is altogether too little cultivated by God’s
people. This branch of education should not be neglected or lost sight
of in our schools.
Students should be taught that they are not independent atoms,
but that each one is a thread which is to unite with other threads in
composing a fabric. In no department can this instruction be more
effectually given than in the school home. Here students are daily
surrounded by opportunities which, if improved, will greatly aid in
developing the social traits of their characters. It lies in their own power
so to improve their time and opportunities as to develop a character
that will make them happy and useful. Those who shut themselves
up within themselves, who are unwilling to be drawn upon to bless
others by friendly associations, lose many blessings; for by mutual
contact minds receive polish and refinement; by social intercourse
acquaintances are formed and friendships contracted which result in a
unity of heart and an atmosphere of love which is pleasing in the sight
of heaven.
Especially should those who have tasted the love of Christ develop
their social powers, for in this way they may win souls to the Saviour.
Christ should not be hid away in their hearts, shut in as a coveted
treasure, sacred and sweet, to be enjoyed solely by themselves; nor
should the love of Christ be manifested toward those only who please
their fancy. Students are to be taught the Christlikeness of exhibiting
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a kindly interest, a social disposition, toward those who are in the
greatest need, even though these may not be their own chosen compan-
ions. At all times and in all places Jesus manifested a loving interest
in the human family, and shed about Him the light of a cheerful piety.
Students should be taught to follow in His steps. They should be taught
to manifest Christian interest, sympathy, and love for their youthful
companions, and endeavor to draw them to Jesus; Christ should be
in their hearts as a well of water springing up into everlasting life,
refreshing all with whom they come in contact.
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