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         Peter’s Counsel to Parents
      
      
        true to the principles of health reform. Let us remember that we have
      
      
        a heaven to win and a hell to shun.
      
      
        Disposition of a Christian
      
      
        We are to realize that the divine Presence is constantly by our
      
      
        side. Christ has said, “Lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of
      
      
        the world.” Remember that He hears every unkind word, every harsh,
      
      
        cutting expression. Could you see Jesus standing by your side, would
      
      
        you speak such words? Then guard carefully every word and action.
      
      
        Walk in all lowliness of mind, cherishing a spirit of meekness and
      
      
        kindness. Live so that others may see that there is a difference between
      
      
        the disposition of a Christian and the disposition of those who make
      
      
        no claim to be Christ’s followers.
      
      
        Words that create heart-burnings and disunion should never escape
      
      
        the lips of Christ’s followers. We must put on Christ; we must be
      
      
        Christlike in every word and action. Thus we shall be partakers of the
      
      
        divine nature. Only by partaking of the divine nature can we live the
      
      
        Christ-life.
      
      
        Challenge to parents
      
      
        Fathers and mothers, wherever you are, whether in your home or
      
      
        elsewhere, it is never right for you to speak one disrespectful word
      
      
        to each other. If you are harassed say, firmly, “This is from Satan.
      
      
        He wants me to perpetuate his words, his spirit, but I will not do
      
      
        it.” Determine to speak in love; to cultivate patience, kindness, long-
      
      
        suffering, courtesy, and delicacy in dealing with one another. Why?—
      
      
        Because you are a Christian; because you are preparing for the society
      
      
        of the heavenly angels; for a home in the kingdom of glory, where no
      
      
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        harsh, unkind, impatient words are ever spoken. Remember that it is
      
      
        Satan who leads men and women to speak unkindly to one another.
      
      
        Arbitrary authority to be avoided
      
      
        Never should parents scold their children. Never should they ad-
      
      
        minister punishment while in a fit of passion. Children cannot be
      
      
        trained aright in this manner. Angry parents need to be chastened by
      
      
        the rod themselves, instead of chastening their children. Punishment