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              influence that this will give us. Moreover, if we feel that we do not
            
            
              need the counsel of our brethren, we close the door of our usefulness
            
            
              as counselors to them.
            
            
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              To every church I would bear the message that man is not to
            
            
              exalt his own judgment. Meekness and lowliness of heart will lead
            
            
              men to desire counsel at every step. And the Lord will say, “Take
            
            
              My yoke upon you, and learn of Me.” It is our privilege to learn of
            
            
              Jesus. But when men, full of self-confidence, think that it is their
            
            
              place to give counsel instead of desiring to be counseled by their
            
            
              experienced brethren, they will listen to voices that will lead them
            
            
              in strange paths.
            
            
              The angels of God are in our world, and satanic agencies are
            
            
              here also. I am permitted to see the inclination of certain ones to
            
            
              follow their own strong traits of character. If they refuse to yoke up
            
            
              with others who have had a long experience in the work, they will
            
            
              become blinded by self-confidence, not discerning between the false
            
            
              and the true. It is not safe that such ones should stand in the position
            
            
              of leaders, to follow their own judgment and plans.
            
            
              It is those who accept the warnings and cautions given them who
            
            
              will walk in safe paths. Let not men yield to the burning desire to
            
            
              become great leaders, or to the desire independently to devise and
            
            
              lay plans for themselves and for the work of God. It is easy for
            
            
              the enemy to work through some who, having themselves need of
            
            
              counsel at every step, undertake the guardianship of souls without
            
            
              having learned the lowliness of Christ. These need counsel from
            
            
              the One who says, “Come unto Me, all ye that labor and are heavy-
            
            
              laden.”
            
            
              Our ministers and leaders need to realize the necessity of coun-
            
            
              seling with their brethren who have been long in the work, and
            
            
              who have gained deep experience in the ways of the Lord. The
            
            
              disposition of some to shut themselves up to themselves, and to feel
            
            
              competent to plan and execute according to their own judgment and
            
            
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              preferences, brings them into strait places. Such an independent
            
            
              way of working is not right, and should not be followed. The minis-
            
            
              ters and teachers in our conferences are to work unitedly with their
            
            
              brethren of experience, asking them for their counsel, and paying
            
            
              heed to their advice.