Cultivating a Christlike Character, April 16
            
            
              Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies,
            
            
              kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; forbearing one
            
            
              another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any:
            
            
              even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye.
            
            
              Colossians 3:12, 13
            
            
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              [During the] hours of the night, while others are sleeping, I am praying that
            
            
              the responsible work committed to my trust may be so unselfishly and faithfully
            
            
              done that God will approve. The anxiety is not with me what others may think
            
            
              or what others may do, but What shall I do to glorify God? and Will my work
            
            
              bear the inspection of God? Is every high look removed from me? Is my heart in
            
            
              harmony with Jesus, the humble Man of Calvary? I am weeping and praying and
            
            
              working, trying my motives and feelings in the light of eternity, and if I am saved
            
            
              at last, it will be through the matchless love of my Redeemer.
            
            
              Oh, how great has been that love that would endure such self-denial, such
            
            
              self-sacrifice for me! All we can do will be little enough, and we may well say we
            
            
              are unprofitable servants. Just as surely as we exalt ourselves and take the highest
            
            
              seat, God will humble us in some way very trying to human nature....
            
            
              My husband, we must cultivate the spirit of Christ. There are many who
            
            
              profess the truth who need its sanctifying influence upon their hearts. Upright
            
            
              dealing and an exalted profession may characterize the life, but a want of true
            
            
              kindness, nobility of soul, conciliatory deportment, will neutralize all the good
            
            
              they are capable of doing. A sour, censorious religion finds no example in the
            
            
              religion of Christ....
            
            
              Kind words, pleasant looks, and unselfish courtesy we must cultivate, for it
            
            
              will invest our character with a charm that will secure us respect and increase our
            
            
              usefulness tenfold more than were we otherwise in words and deportment....
            
            
              An account we will have to render to God by and by, and we do not want
            
            
              to be ashamed of it because it bears the stamp of inconsistencies of impulse, of
            
            
              selfishness. We want to have an eye single to God’s glory, and our soul temple
            
            
              cleansed of selfishness, ... and we assimilated to His divine image. Let us grow
            
            
              in grace. Cling with faith to Jesus Christ and we shall be upheld by His power.—
            
            
              Letter 22, April 16, 1880
            
            
              , to James White, her husband, who had just retired as
            
            
              General Conference president.
            
            
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