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when they grow tired and unfaithful to their high trust, and neglect
their known duty.
The wife and mother who nobly overcomes difficulties under which
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others sink for want of patience and fortitude to persevere, not only
becomes strong herself in doing her duty, but her experience in over-
coming temptations and obstacles qualifies her to be an efficient help to
others, both by words and example. Many who do well under favorable
circumstances seem to undergo a transformation of character under
adversity and trial; they deteriorate in proportion to their troubles. God
never designed that we should be the sport of circumstances.—
The
Health Reformer, August, 1877
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The Elements of Christian Character—Mothers, you are devel-
oping character. Your compassionate Redeemer is watching you in
love and sympathy, ready to hear your prayers, and render you the
assistance which you need in your lifework. Love, joy, peace, long-
suffering, gentleness, faith, and charity are the elements of the Chris-
tian character. These precious graces are the fruits of the Spirit. They
are the Christian’s crown and shield. The highest daydreaming and
most exalted aspirations can aim at nothing higher. Nothing can give
more perfect content and satisfaction. These heavenly attainments are
not dependent upon circumstances, nor the will or imperfect judgment
of man. The precious Saviour, who understands our heart struggles
and the weakness of our natures, pities, and forgives us our errors and
bestows upon us the graces which we earnestly desire.—
Ibid
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A True Gentlewoman—Do you make mistakes? Do not let this
discourage you. The Lord may permit you to make small mistakes in
order to save you from making larger mistakes. Go to Jesus, and ask
Him to forgive you, and then believe that He does. “If we confess our
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sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us
from all unrighteousness.”
When unkind, discouraging words are spoken to you, do not re-
taliate. Do not reply unless you can return a pleasant answer. Say to
yourself, “I will not disappoint my Saviour.” The Christian woman is
a gentlewoman. On her lips is ever the law of kindness. She utters
no hasty words. To speak gentle words when you are irritated will
bring sunshine into your hearts and make your path more smooth.
A schoolgirl, when asked for a definition of meekness, said, “Meek
people are those who give soft answers to rough questions.” Christ