Need of Counsel and Guidance
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Need of Sound Judgment
If there is any subject that should be considered with calm reason
and unimpassioned judgment, it is the subject of marriage. If ever the
Bible is needed as a counselor, it is before taking a step that binds
persons together for life. But the prevailing sentiment is that in this
matter the feelings are to be the guide; and in too many cases love-sick
sentimentalism takes the helm and guides to certain ruin. It is here
that the youth show less intelligence than on any other subject; it is
here that they refuse to be reasoned with. The question of marriage
seems to have a bewitching power over them. They do not submit
themselves to God. Their senses are enchained, and they move forward
in secretiveness, as if fearful that their plans would be interfered with
by some one.
The underhand way in which courtships and marriages are carried
on is the cause of a great amount of misery, the full extent of which is
known only to God. On this rock thousands have made shipwreck of
their souls. Professed Christians, whose lives are marked with integrity,
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and who seem sensible upon every other subject, make fearful mistakes
here. They manifest a set, determined will that reason cannot change.
They become so fascinated with human feelings and impulses that they
have no desire to search the Bible and come into close relationship
with God.
Satan knows just what elements he has to deal with, and he displays
his infernal wisdom in various devices to entrap souls to their ruin.
He watches every step that is taken, and makes many suggestions,
and often these suggestions are followed rather than the counsel of
God’s word. This finely woven, dangerous net is skillfully prepared
to entangle the young and unwary. It may often be disguised under a
covering of light; but those who become its victims pierce themselves
through with many sorrows. As the result, we see wrecks of humanity
everywhere.
Parents to Be Consulted
When will our youth be wise? How long will this kind of work
go on? Shall children consult only their own desires and inclinations,
irrespective of the advice and judgment of their parents? Some seem