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How to Settle Your Troubles, June 24
Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him
his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast
gained thy brother.
Matthew 18:15
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We should carefully consider what is our relation to God and to one
another. We are continually sinning against God, but His mercy still follows
us; in love He bears with our perversities, our neglect, our ingratitude, our
disobedience. He never becomes impatient with us. We insult His mercy,
grieve His Holy Spirit, and do Him dishonor before men and angels, and
yet His compassions fail not. The thought of God’s long-suffering to us
should make us forbearing to one another. How patiently should we bear
with the faults and errors of our brethren when we remember how great
are our own failings in the sight of God. How can we pray to our heavenly
Father, “Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors” (
Matthew 6:12
) if
we are ... exacting in our treatment of others? ...
If you think your brother has injured you, go to him in kindness and
love, and you may come to an understanding and to reconciliation.... If
you succeed in settling the trouble you have gained your brother without
exposing his frailties, and the settlement between you has been the covering
of a multitude of sins from the observation of others....
It takes special watchfulness to keep the affections alive and our hearts
in a condition where we shall be sensible of the good that exists in the
hearts of others. If we do not watch on this point, Satan will put his
jealousy into our souls; he will put his glasses before our eyes, that we
may see the actions of our brethren in a distorted light. Instead of looking
critically upon our brethren we should turn our eyes within, and be ready
to discover the objectionable traits of our own character. As we have a
proper realization of our own mistakes and failures, the mistakes of others
will sink into insignificance.
Satan is an accuser of the brethren. He is on the watch for every error,
no matter how small, that he may have something on which to found an
accusation. Keep off from Satan’s side
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