Chapter 24—Size of the Family
A Grievous Wrong to Mothers, Children, and Society—There
are parents who, without consideration as to whether or not they can
do justice to a large family, fill their houses with these helpless little
beings, who are wholly dependent upon their parents for care and
instruction.... This is a grievous wrong, not only to the mother, but to
her children and to society....
Parents should always bear in mind the future good of their chil-
dren. They should not be compelled to devote every hour to taxing
labor in order to provide the necessaries of life
Before increasing their family, they should take into consideration
whether God would be glorified or dishonored by their bringing chil-
dren into the world. They should seek to glorify God by their union
from the first, and during every year of their married life
The Mother’s Health Is Important—In view of the responsi-
bility that devolves upon parents, it should be carefully considered
whether it is best to bring children into the family. Has the mother
sufficient strength to care for her children? And can the father give
such advantages as will rightly mold and educate the child? How little
is the destiny of the child considered! The gratification of passion is
the only thought, and burdens are brought upon the wife and mother
which undermine her vitality and paralyze her spiritual power. In bro-
ken health and with discouraged spirits she finds herself surrounded
by a little flock whom she cannot care for as she should. Lacking the
instruction they should have, they grow up to dishonor God and to
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communicate to others the evil of their own natures, and thus an army
is raised up whom Satan manages as he pleases
Other Factors to Be Considered—God would have parents act
as rational beings and live in such a manner that each child may be
properly educated, that the mother may have strength and time to
1
The Review and Herald, June 24, 1890
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2
Testimonies For The Church 2:380
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3
The Review and Herald, October 25, 1892
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