Chapter 54—Religion in the Family
      
      
        Family Religion Defined—Family religion consists in bringing
      
      
        up the children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Every
      
      
        one in the family is to be nourished by the lessons of Christ, and the
      
      
        interest of each soul is to be strictly guarded, in order that Satan shall
      
      
        not deceive and allure away from Christ. This is the standard every
      
      
        family should aim to reach, and they should determine not to fail or
      
      
        to be discouraged. When parents are diligent and vigilant in their
      
      
        instruction, and train their children with an eye single to the glory of
      
      
        God, they co-operate with God, and God co-operates with them in the
      
      
        saving of the souls of the children for whom Christ has died
      
      
      
      
        Religious instruction means much more than ordinary instruction.
      
      
        It means that you are to pray with your children, teaching them how
      
      
        to approach Jesus and tell Him all their wants. It means that you are
      
      
        to show in your life that Jesus is everything to you, and that His love
      
      
        makes you patient, kind, forbearing, and yet firm in commanding your
      
      
        children after you, as did Abraham
      
      
      
      
        Just as you conduct yourself in your home life, you are registered
      
      
        in the books of heaven. He who would become a saint in heaven must
      
      
        first become a saint in his own family. If fathers and mothers are true
      
      
        Christians in the family, they will be useful members of the church
      
      
        and be able to conduct affairs in the church and in society after the
      
      
        same manner in which they conduct their family concerns. Parents, let
      
      
        not your religion be simply a profession, but let it become a reality
      
      
      
      
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        Religion to Be a Part of Home Education—Home religion is
      
      
        fearfully neglected. Men and women show much interest in foreign
      
      
        missions. They give liberally to them and thus seek to satisfy their
      
      
        conscience, thinking that giving to the cause of God will atone for
      
      
        their neglect to set a right example in the home. But the home is their
      
      
        1
      
      
         Manuscript 24
      
      
        b, 1894.
      
      
        2
      
      
         Letter 8a, 1896
      
      
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        3
      
      
         Manuscript 53, Undated
      
      
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