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         The Adventist Home
      
      
        says, “He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that
      
      
        ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.
      
      
      
      
        If you refuse to storm or fret or scold, the Lord will show you the
      
      
        way through. He will help you to use the talent of speech in such a
      
      
        Christlike way that the precious attributes of patience, comfort, and
      
      
        love will be brought into the home
      
      
      
      
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         The Signs of the Times, August 23, 1899
      
      
        .
      
      
        41
      
      
         Manuscript 67, 1901
      
      
        .