Chapter 75—Parental Guidance In Social Affairs
      
      
        Evil Influences Almost Overpowering—The evil influence
      
      
        around our children is almost overpowering; it is corrupting their
      
      
        minds and leading them down to perdition. The minds of youth are
      
      
        naturally given to folly; and at an early age, before their characters
      
      
        are formed and their judgment matured, they frequently manifest a
      
      
        preference for associates who will have an injurious influence over
      
      
        them
      
      
      
      
        Could my voice reach the parents all through the land, I would
      
      
        warn them not to yield to the desires of their children in choosing their
      
      
        companions or associates. Little do parents consider that injurious
      
      
        impressions are far more readily received by the young than are divine
      
      
        impressions; therefore their associations should be the most favorable
      
      
        for the growth of grace and for the truth revealed in the word of God
      
      
        to be established in the heart
      
      
      
      
        Let the youth be placed in the most favorable circumstances possi-
      
      
        ble; for the company they keep, the principles they adopt, the habits
      
      
        they form, will settle the question of their usefulness here and of their
      
      
        future, eternal interests with a certainty that is infallible
      
      
      
      
        The Peril of Unlimited Freedom—Parents, your sons and daugh-
      
      
        ters are not properly guarded. They should never be permitted to go
      
      
        and come when they please, without your knowledge and consent.
      
      
        The unbounded freedom granted to children at this age has proved
      
      
        the ruin of thousands. How many are allowed to be in the streets at
      
      
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        night, and parents are content to be ignorant of the associates of their
      
      
        children. Too often companions are chosen whose influence tends
      
      
        only to demoralize.
      
      
        Under the cover of darkness boys collect in groups to learn their
      
      
        first lessons in card playing, gambling, smoking, and wine or beer
      
      
        sipping. The sons of religious parents venture into the saloons for an
      
      
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         Testimonies For The Church 1, 400, 401
      
      
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         Ibid., 5:544, 545
      
      
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         Ibid., 5:545
      
      
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