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         Counsels for the Church
      
      
        What a world of gossip would be prevented if every man would
      
      
        remember that those who tell him the faults of others will as freely
      
      
        publish his faults at a favorable opportunity. We should endeavor to
      
      
        think well of all men, especially our brethren, until compelled to think
      
      
        otherwise. We should not hastily credit evil reports. These are often
      
      
        the result of envy or misunderstanding, or they may proceed from
      
      
        exaggeration or a partial disclosure of facts. Jealousy and suspicion,
      
      
        once allowed a place, will sow themselves broadcast, like thistledown.
      
      
        Should a brother go astray, then is the time to show your real interest
      
      
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        in him. Go to him kindly, pray with and for him, remembering the
      
      
        infinite price which Christ has paid for his redemption. In this way
      
      
        you may save a soul from death, and hide a multitude of sins.
      
      
        A glance, a word, even an intonation of the voice, may be vital
      
      
        with falsehood, sinking like a barbed arrow into some heart, inflicting
      
      
        an incurable wound. Thus a doubt, a reproach, may be cast upon one
      
      
        by whom God would accomplish a good work, and his influence is
      
      
        blighted, his usefulness destroyed. Among some species of animals,
      
      
        if one of their number is wounded and falls, he is at once set upon
      
      
        and torn in pieces by his fellows. The same cruel spirit is indulged by
      
      
        men and women who bear the name of Christians. They manifest a
      
      
        pharisaical zeal to stone others less guilty than themselves. There are
      
      
        some who point to others’ faults and failures to divert attention from
      
      
        their own, or to gain credit for great zeal for God and the church
      
      
      
      
        The time spent in criticizing the motives and works of Christ’s
      
      
        servants might better be spent in prayer. Often if those who find fault
      
      
        knew the truth in regard to those with whom they find fault, they would
      
      
        have an altogether different opinion of them. How much better it would
      
      
        be if, instead of criticizing and condemning others, everyone would
      
      
        say: “I must work out my own salvation. If I co-operate with Him
      
      
        who desires to save my soul, I must watch myself diligently. I must
      
      
        cut away every evil from my life. I must become a new creature in
      
      
        Christ. I must overcome every fault. Then, instead of weakening those
      
      
        who are striving against evil, I can strengthen them by encouraging
      
      
        words.
      
      
      
      
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         Testimonies for the Church 5:58, 59
      
      
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         Testimonies for the Church 8:83, 84