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Education
The essence of true politeness is consideration for others. The
essential, enduring education is that which broadens the sympathies
and encourages universal kindliness. That so-called culture which
does not make a youth deferential toward his parents, appreciative
of their excellences, forbearing toward their defects, and helpful to
their necessities; which does not make him considerate and tender,
generous and helpful toward the young, the old, and the unfortunate,
and courteous toward all, is a failure.
Real refinement of thought and manner is better learned in the
school of the divine Teacher than by any observance of set rules. His
love pervading the heart gives to the character those refining touches
that fashion it in the semblance of His own. This education imparts
a heaven-born dignity and sense of propriety. It gives a sweetness of
disposition and a gentleness of manner that can never be equaled by
the superficial polish of fashionable society.
The Bible enjoins courtesy, and it presents many illustrations of the
unselfish spirit, the gentle grace, the winsome temper, that characterize
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true politeness. These are but reflections of the character of Christ.
All the real tenderness and courtesy in the world, even among those
who do not acknowledge His name, is from Him. And He desires
these characteristics to be perfectly reflected in His children. It is His
purpose that in us men shall behold His beauty.
The most valuable treatise on etiquette ever penned is the precious
instruction given by the Saviour, with the utterance of the Holy Spirit
through the apostle Paul—words that should be ineffaceably written
in the memory of every human being, young or old:
“As I have loved you, that ye also love one another.”
John 13:34
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