Changes Our Defiance to Submission, April 20
            
            
              Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for
            
            
              they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they
            
            
              may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for
            
            
              you.
            
            
              Hebrews 13:17
            
            
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              There are some young men and women who have no method in doing
            
            
              their work. Though they are always busy, they can present but little results.
            
            
              They have erroneous ideas of work, and think that they are working hard,
            
            
              when if they had practised method in their work, and applied themselves
            
            
              intelligently to what they had to do, they would have accomplished much
            
            
              more in a shorter time. By dallying over the less important matters, they
            
            
              find themselves hurried, perplexed, and confused when they are called
            
            
              upon to do those duties that are more essential.... Under circumstances
            
            
              like these, where young men and women are making such mistakes in
            
            
              their life discipline, it would be sinful not to speak words of advice and
            
            
              counsel.
            
            
              It is an extremely delicate thing to tell people of their faults. The
            
            
              reprover is likely to find that in those reproved, pride and stubbornness
            
            
              assert themselves, and the will is arrayed in defiance and opposition. But
            
            
              for all this, advice should be given, and faults should be laid bare. Let the
            
            
              young cultivate a teachable spirit, that they may be benefited by the efforts
            
            
              of those who seek to help them....
            
            
              It may seem that we are to study our own hearts, and square our own
            
            
              actions by some standard of our own; but this is not the case. This would
            
            
              but work deform instead of reform. The work must begin in the heart,
            
            
              and then the spirit, the words, the expression of the countenance, and the
            
            
              actions of the life, will make manifest that a change has taken place. In
            
            
              knowing Christ through the grace that He has shed forth abundantly, we
            
            
              become changed.... In humility we shall correct every fault and defect of
            
            
              character; because Christ is abiding in the heart, we shall be fitted up for
            
            
              the heavenly family above
            
            
            
            
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              The Youth’s Instructor, August 31, 1893
            
            
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