Kindness, March 13
            
            
              She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of
            
            
              kindness.
            
            
              Proverbs 31:26
            
            
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              The Lord will help every one of us where we need help the most in the
            
            
              grand work of overcoming and conquering self. Let the law of kindness be
            
            
              upon your lips and the oil of grace in your heart. This will produce wonderful
            
            
              results. You will be tender, sympathetic, courteous. You need all these graces.
            
            
              The Holy Spirit must be received and brought into your character; then it will
            
            
              be as holy fire, giving forth incense which will rise up to God, not from lips
            
            
              that condemn, but as a healer of the souls of men. Your countenance will
            
            
              express the image of the divine.
            
            
              No sharp, critical, blunt, or severe words should be spoken. This is
            
            
              common fire, and must be left out of all our councils and intercourse with our
            
            
              brethren. God requires every soul in His service to kindle their censers from
            
            
              the coals of sacred fire. The common, severe, harsh words that come from
            
            
              your lips so readily must be withheld, and the Spirit of God speak through the
            
            
              human agent. By beholding the character of Christ you will become changed
            
            
              into His likeness. The grace of Christ alone can change your heart and then
            
            
              you will reflect the image of the Lord Jesus. God calls upon us to be like
            
            
              Him—pure, holy, and undefiled. We are to bear the divine image.—
            
            
              The SDA
            
            
              Bible Commentary, 3:1164
            
            
              , Ellen G. White Comments.
            
            
              We may talk of the blessings of the Holy Spirit, and pray in regard to
            
            
              receiving them; but unless the human agent is worked by the Spirit of God, He
            
            
              reveals that he has Him not. When the Spirit molds and fashions the character
            
            
              after the divine similitude, He will be unmistakably revealed in every word
            
            
              we speak and in everything we do, showing to the world that there is a marked
            
            
              difference between the children of light and the children of darkness. The
            
            
              Lord wants us to stand stiffly for the faith once delivered to the saints. We are
            
            
              to speak the truth in love. Our great Teacher says, “Take my yoke upon you,
            
            
              and learn of me, for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto
            
            
              your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (
            
            
              Matthew 11:29,
            
            
              30
            
            
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              Letter 84, 1899
            
            
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